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Recently I have had a number of people requesting that I allow child avatars at friends-grid and I want to discuss this openly and honestly.

It is not my place to try and push my morals and values upon others....however, as a grid owner, it is my place to learn the laws of every country involved. In this situation, I need to understand the Child pornography laws of not only where our servers are located, but I also had to research and learn the laws of every country we have residents and guests from. We currently have residents from 30 countries and guests from another 35. People who say "laws dont apply " are incorrect on this subject. You may have servers in one country.....but all the laws of your resident's countries come into play also.

A good thing to remember is that because you have gotten away with something for 10 years does not make it legal. You may never get caught....and then again.....somebody with a grudge may turn you in.

I want to point out a recent post by Jerralyn Franzic . Jerralyn showed the cutest childs outfit ever! ....and she also made the wisest statement ...."I don't understand the hatred towards child avis in Open Sim. Sure, they shouldn't engage in adult activities and maybe not hang in Adult sims but otherwise, what's the problem?" Personally I would love to see kids riding ponies at my farm....and having fun being mermaids. If everyone in child avi were to abide by Jerralyn's statement, there would not be an issue.

However, lets talk about reality. Not all child avis are simply riding ponies and playing in the water. The simple truth is that many (not all) of these child avis are having sex. Some grids use this to boost their traffic. In some countries, including US, the graphic illustration of a child online having sex is 100% illegal. You see, it does not matter if the person behind the computer is 12 or 52......the visual computer generated depiction of a child (child avatar) involved in sex is very illegal in a number of countries. 18 U.S.C. § 2252 Many people will say their countries are different....and this is stupid. I did not make laws........but I need to abide by them. Before people jump on this and criticize me ....I would suggest you read the laws of your country....your servers country...and the laws of all your residents or guests. There are many misinformed people on this subject. I am not saying the laws are right or wrong......but learn the laws.....then comment. You need to learn laws for your servers country...and all your guests countries. This post is not about morals......it is about laws....of all the countries involved.

I have spent over 200 hours reading international laws. Some countries allow things that others do not. However, you have to consider all the laws because of guests.


In closing....do I hate kids and kids avis......nooooooo. I would love to be able to allow them to come to friends grid. However, this is a less than perfect world in which we live, and I have to look at the potential liability of allowing those child avis. Because of that, Child avis are not allowed on friends-grid......no exceptions! I am sad....because there are some wonderful people in kids avis that I do not get to have visit.

Friends-grid is an Adult community and we are looking for adults, with adult avi's who want to make this their main opensim home.


Sodasullivan: I think this is the proper way to address this issue Safine. You are setting the rules YOU are comfortable with on YOUR region. I am fine having my region open to everyone as long as they agree to fol... 27 days ago
Friends of CopyKat
[LATE EDIT]
After decades of managing clubs, regions, and grids, Oni is retiring.

UPDATE: Visit the Tribute Club at the CopyKat Collective Center to hang out and dance with old and new friends. The TP to Collective member regions and shops is also located at the Club
login.friends-grid.com:8002:Collective Central


Star Ravenhurst: Oni I am sorry to hear this. You have a home in my region any time you want. I don't usually have people stay on my land, but you are forever welcome. You can even live in a castle if you want. Or a s... 11 months ago
I would like to collect a list of those who make original items or systems or scripts for Opensim. Currently I have the following listed :

Vivosim
Arcadia
Encantada
Monentes
Ashland
Lunaria

I'd love to add to this list if anyone can help me out, please. These will be listed in an information office I wish to set up with a poster leading to a link for each one. If you happen to be a creator and would either like or not like to be included, please let me know. Thank you.

Joe Builder: Is there a prize for being listed? 1 years ago
Millions of stars lit up Caribou when I took Monkey on my shoulder for a little break from my landscaping. I sent a loving thought to my friend Veri McMaster who taught me so much. She is now with the angels, and I miss her badly.

Veri knew that our experiences in OS can have a healing effect on our brains. She went out to prove this by taking many people to adult environments and experiences. We talked much about her project, and she inspired me to read more and follow up on what she was doing.

Veri was right. Environment, architecture, experiences, good relations, can all improve our neurological health. But there is also a dark side of adult life in OS which has opposite effects.

I know it myself. For almost a year I lived through a period of exclusion and harassment. My friends were lost and lies were circulated. I was excluded from all adult events and groups all over OS. If I asked something I was told that these are only my own sick fantasies. My friends were told to ignore me or they would get excluded themselves.


I was as alone as can be, night after night, week after week. And no. I was not feeling well.

My few remaining friends saved me. But I still suffer from what happened.

This is a dangerous game. I don’t think that most people understand how dangerous it is. Lonely people who maybe have other health problems may fare much worse than I did.

I now own a major region and grid, caribougrid.com. I am happily partnered and have many new friends. Some have apologized for their treatment of me which I do appreciate.

I still suffer from the old lies that were circulated. I am not allowed into most adult events and sites. This does not hurt me anymore. I go where I am welcome and wonder about the others.

I wanted to tell this to explain my approach to Caribou. We will never exclude anyone, and we will never accept any harassment on these islands. There will never be groups that exclude others. Everyone will be welcome on these adult islands where there are as few rules as we can have.

If you have similar experiences please talk with me. We don't offer professional advice but it may help to talk, and to know that there are others as well. Such as I myself.

Caribou is Adult rated and we hope that our friends come as 18+ Avatars, at any size small or large, so we can keep these islands open, advanced and safe for all. Ask me, Jeanne, if you are not sure how we see you.

Ask me also for private homes, hideaways and second homes. From villages and tropical islands to countryside and winter snow. From your own island to a village condo. Caribou Avatars have the right built in.

Avatars from other Grids please contact me and we see what and how we can arrange. We will always find solutions.

A caribougrid.com Avatar can be created at http://hg.caribougrid.com:16002 - and life here will be easy. Please note that our server checks automatically that your e-mail address is a real one.

All is free in Caribou. Read more at www.caribougrid.com.

A warm hug to you all. Jeanne

IndigoQueen King: I am new to OS so I don't know about all of the past BS those ppl put you through. I hope that you continue to heal and thrive..when I came to visit your grid you and your friends greeted me with warm... 2 months ago
For the last 3 weeks, I have dealt with a intermittent issue on my grid that has about driven me nuts. I have tested, and eliminated possibilities …..without luck.

Yesterday two of the largest grid owners in open sim, Lone Wolf from Wolf Territories and Josh Boam from Aviworlds, took time from their busy schedules to help finally fix this issue. In addition , Rafael from Wolf Territories assisted. I cannot say thanks enough!

Although I work with Josh’s hosting business, this involved much more. Josh would not give up and recruited Lone Wolf.

In my opinion, maybe this is what opensim was designed to be: sharing of knowledge and helping each other.

Lone Wolf and Josh did not have to give up their time to help a tiny grid…..but they did!

Maybe we can all learn from these individuals!

Sharing knowledge is Caring



FYI. The default setting of 2 threadsets can cause major headaches depending on your region….it is way too low in some cases. You all probably know that…but I learned.

thedeeferry: So, OpenLife has me blocked, so I cannot reply directly to its comment. Nor can I send it a private message which I prefer. I apologize to any others if what I type now offends you. This is directe... 3 months ago
In reference to my post yesterday..
A professor gave a balloon to every student, who had to inflate it, write their name on it and throw it in the hallway. The professor then mixed all the balloons. The students were given 5 minutes to find their own balloon. Despite a hectic search, no one found their balloon. At that point the professor told the students to take the first balloon that they found and hand it to the person whose name was written on it. Within 5 minutes everyone had their own balloon.
The professor said to the students: “These balloons are like happiness. We will never find it if everyone is looking for their own. But if we care about other people's happiness....we'll find ours too. This is the same as "community building" if we all help and support each other.. we would be much happier.. just something to think about.. as a side note.. I love teachers who teach like this!
Here’s to caring about everyone’s happiness .. now and always!

Suzi_Avonside: I think you've just fundamentally described what socialism is! I realise that that will probably scare the living daylights out of the average, everyday American over the age of 40, but think about i... 1 years ago
▁ ▂ ▃ ▄ ▅ ▆ ▇ FUNKY DISCO - PARTY ▇ ▆ ▅ ▄ ▃ ▂▁


Saturday / Samstag 24.June/Juni 2023
starts ◕12:00 OS time / 21:00 Uhr europ.

Livemix – Groove – Funky – Club – Disco
Retro back in time
with/mit ☊DJ CRAZY
▶▷▶ at CC – CLUBREGION

enjoy / good mood / gute Laune / gute Stimmung

Dresscode: come as you are / kein Kleiderzwang

TAXI : hg.osgrid.org:80:CC-CLUBREGION
*NUR ERWACHSENE* ADULTS ONLY*

░░▒▓◙█◙█◙ CC-CLUBREGION ◙█◙█◙▓▒░░



Crazyposeidon: Thx all guests, we had a great summer night party Danke allen Gästen für die tolle Sommernachtsparty Crazy & Carmen senden Peace and Love 10 months ago

First Wedding on TwoHearts Island was Adani and Essensual's Wedding
so who is next??


PinDeluca: Congratulations - hope your life together is filled with love and light ! 5 months ago
HedFaktori Mission Statement:

Our aim is to provide stable, working, Full Permission products to the best of our ability and encourage others to utilise these assets in play or in further developement to enrich the virtual lives of everyone.

Our wish:

It is our sincerest wish that everyone dispenses with all the debates about rights and wrongs and accepts that what we do, we do for the purest of reasons and for the good of everyone.

Current Affairs Statement:

We are not concerned with traffic numbers or grid rankings and we have no desire to provide a mall or store and have our grid constantly feeding hungry travellers who take everything in a single visit. We provided items that could be used in stores and malls who do wish traffic and numbers and rankings and if that is how they want to play? We will not interfere. We should all be able to have fun and share the good things OS has to offer without any dramas. However, many people seem to have an issue with this and others also want to claim kudos for new products on their regions which we developed and they simply removed our logo and rebox them. As if this wasn't enough? They then restrict the perms to no copy or no trans or both. This is in direct contradiction to why we developed the assets in the first instance and this is why despite our 'Mission Statement' and wish to avoid dramas we have removed our products.
We will continue to develop and build on the assets we had always planned on doing and when the Open Sim community is ready to treat both our assets and our wishes with respect we may release them but until then we remain NotSorry.

Road Kill

Synthetica: I'd just like to point out to anyone interested that the assets that that HedFaktori have provided to Open Sim users over the years amounts to over 12,000 hours of work shared by a small group of peop... 8 months ago

Wie gewünscht, ein Alter Mann Avatar
As requested, an old man avatar


Jerralyn Franzic: Haha... have to score this for an alt! Your Grandma approves... :D 10 months ago
Announcing the opening of the Raven's Peak Grid (ex Resurgence).

We managed to find an old backup from a month ago and have loaded it up. Not ideal, however we are all encouraged that not all is lost!

We have decided on a separate landing area to the main regions. You will now land on an island where you can TP to the region of your choice using the region teleporter.

The shops are open along with Hellfire Bay and Cinders Beach & Residential. We are all working hard to re-upload all our lost items and more! This means everything else has been put on hold so we can bring you quality items once again. So pop on over regularly because there will be new items in the stores daily.

If you were living at Cinders Beach prior to the hack, please contact Mike or Zoey. Either your island is still standing and needs to be handed back to you or it was lost. Either way, we can certainly assist.

We do have whole regions available and payable monthly POA:
1x1 - 30,000 prims
2x2 - 60,000 prims
4x4 - 90,000 prims

If you wish to live at Raven's Peak or have a store here you will need to make an account. You can make an account at Raven's Peak on this link: http://ravenspeak.outworldz.net:8002/wifi/user/account/

There are shops available for rent in the main shopping area. If you are interested in having a store here please contact either Mike or Zoey. Store owners are provided with a free 1x1 region with full admin rights.

As we get back on our feet again, we will be reverting back to our original plans to bring you a grid that you can live at, play at, shop at and more. The regions currently allow you to sail and fly around, we will be bringing back our Friday and Saturday night events and there will be lots more coming!

Everyone from Raven's Peak would like to thank you all for your support and look forward to welcoming you back.

Mike, Zoey and the team at Raven's Peak ♥

Mistressdalgato: Welcome back! any backup is better then no backup, i will come shop soon. 3 months ago
I have a favor to ask. If you like this crazy place called friends would you please give it a like and leave a little review when you have time. Nothing fancy…. Just say what you like. Your words carry much credibility!

Hope you all are having good beginning of weekend. I am having carpal tunnel issues (could it be the 500 zombies Lily and I shot?), But plan on being online a bit this weekend.

I am planning on sailing to the new regions this Sunday at noon, would love company if others want to join.

I would like to have a
Friends-grid dance next Sunday, June 25, at noon.

Don’t know who could make it or if Reggie interested in DJ (which we love). Please comment on this thread if interested.

Pin, we could use one of your venues or Party Mountain at my place. This is meant to be fun and relaxing after a busy week….not adding stress

PinDeluca: Im up for Sailing too, should be good :) 11 months ago
12-2 GRID DJ ROSA ALEKSEEV AT ILY IN EXILE ON FRIENDS GRID
SHAKE IT UP! DISCO AND FUNK WITH ROSA: FRIENDS GRID

ILY grid may be down
But Friends are here so do not frown
Rosa back tonight in town
On the beach to shake us down
Disco funk you know its true
Shake it up cos we Love You

Safinemahoe2: DJ Rosa is Rocking and Bobbi has the energy! Come out and Party!!!! 5 months ago

Took this of Melody swimming and enjoying being mermaids.


KaliStar: No worries I am glad you both like it! Took me a while to get a picture I really liked but when I finally got this one I was like yay! 9 months ago

Please Welcome Kali Star to Friends. Our new "Hostess" Zuzu and Serina got Kali taken care of in our new trial homes.


PinDeluca: Welcome to the grid Kali 9 months ago

Took the Playful Girl out on the water today to do some more tuning. It was great to be able to get the spinnaker up and enjoy the wonderful islands of Friends Grid going passed.


Courreges Malatesta: Amazing boat !! 9 months ago
We had a wonderful sail today with new and old friends. Those who didn't know how to sail joined us in using the wind boats. What great fun those are. So you don't need to know how to sail. You can use any boat and have just as much fun.

PinDeluca: The Sailing was so much fun cant wait till next week ! 10 months ago

Hello lovely people...Linda in tha house :))


Safinemahoe2: My rum better not be missing. ; ) 10 months ago

“Friendship is the only cement that will hold the world together.” Woodrow Wilson

Opening June 15

#friends-grid


Nico Kaliani: In OS, people are more important than land. Come visit the friendly people on Friends-Grid. (I don't have to visit. I live there). 11 months ago

Huge thank you to Reggie and Pin for the dance yesterday! Wonderful venue that Pin built and a great LIVE song set by Reggie...adding in some special requests! Appreciate both of you!


PinDeluca: Great Night Thanks for the all the fun :D 11 months ago
*** ANNOUNCEMENT ***
For all of you who asked a copy of my creations, good news:
ZweetZ has now a shop setup in the Bahai Lotus Theatre!
I'll be adding more items regularly. Teleporter is at Landing Point.
Lemme know what u think?
Enjoy!☺ Peter

PinDeluca: Thank you for sharing your creations Peter. I really enjoyed looking around. I am interested you see what you make next ! 1 years ago

Sailing Sunday
12 noon grid time
come join us


Lily Loire: Had a great time. :) 1 years ago
This week a resident commented to me:

"I cannot believe people here actually talk to eachother...these are real people!
This is not like where I used to live......the people there were not real people"


friends-grid......we are a collection of real people and cultures.

*friends-grid does use animesh for atmosphere, but does not and will not use bots to alter traffic counts. I applaud the grids and regions who refuse to use fake traffic!



Mistressdalgato: I applaud you as well 3 days ago
New Release!

We just released the Steven Formal Suit with Shoes for the Gianni Body.
A HUD is Included to change the Color / Texture of the Fabric, Shirt, Ties, Belt (also Hide and Show) and Shoes!

Hopefully you like it :)

Btw. : most of our Stuff will be updated time by time with HUDs to keep the Inventory clean! ;)

PinDeluca: Please sign me up for the inventory cleaning service ;P 7 months ago
Thank you everyone for your patience during a little work last night. Everything is finished and appears to be very smooth. Please let me know of issues with details as always.

I want to explain what this maintenance was….and why.

I have added a second server to friends-grid. This splits the work load of the server making less chance of lag and issues.

I believe in being proactive and trying to build a strong infrastructure rather than waiting until our servers fail and then dealing with it.

Also, just so you all are aware, we have a system of triple backups in place.

I am doing everything possible to optimize user experience, while protecting our work with backups.

I do not normally share the boring “geek speak “, but realize that Josh and Alex (my tech team) and myself are working hard to improve your user experience.

With that in mind, I have enclosed some pictures below labeled “Help”

Please try these suggestions…..And let’s work together towards making an awesome user experience.


Safinemahoe2: No more getting lost! 😂 9 months ago

we had an awesome time sailing...and I want to share some photos courtesy of Zuzu and Serina. thank you all for joining!


PinDeluca: Aww Awsome pictures !!!!!! such a nice capture of our time together 9 months ago

Please welcome new resident Melody Star to friends grid.


PinDeluca: Welcome Melody, looking forward to meeting you :D 9 months ago
In memory of Sinéad, I'll be playing her album, "Throw Down Your Arms", great reggae songs covers..
If you love her, if you love reggae, come to Reggie's on Saturday 7/29 at 12 SLT for an hour of music and dance.
Peace !

PinDeluca: Awwwww - nice one Reggie, will try to be there XXX 9 months ago

Please help me welcome Joyce Daines to friends-grid. Joyce is from USA and is currently living on same island as Safine and Serina


PinDeluca: Welcome on Board Joyce 10 months ago
Hello everyone

I was just thinking about the wonderful mix of people we have at friends-grid.

Do you want to learn more about other parts of the world and cultures…..then get to know your neighbors.

I know I will probably make some mistakes here; but this is a cheat sheet to get you started:

Friends Region

Sorabis Slade - Canada
Pin Deluca - England
Courreges Malatesta - France
Lily Loire - USA
Safine Mahoe - USA
Marty Feldman - Germany
Linda McAlister - Netherlands
Timur - Germany / China
Serina Gee - England
Zuzu Bahro - USA
Dante Cavalieri - Spain


Hispanic Village- far East of grid

Isabel Nicaragua - Nicaragua
Anthony Veeper - Mexico
Queen Titanium - Chile
Peter Oldrich - Peru
Dominic - Argentina
John - Argentina
Camila - Panama


Xinashi Region - nw corner of grid

Nico Kailani - USA



Corsica Region - sw corner of grid
Angela - USA?




Many apologies if I missed someone

PinDeluca: What a Wonderful World ! 10 months ago

We have added a couple new residents:
Queen.Titanium @hg.osgrid.org:80
Peter.Oldrich @hg.osgrid.org:80

they will both be living in the Hispanic Village


PinDeluca: Welcome Home Queen and Peter. 10 months ago
Please help me Welcome :
Dominic Soler from Argentina to friends-grid. Dominic will be living in the Hispanic Village and he loves building and wants to help friends- grid anyway possible.

Antony Veeper from Chiapas Mexico. Anthony has been in open sim for 3 years and wants to be involved with our community. Anthony will be living in the Hispanic Village.

PinDeluca: Welcome Dominic and Antony 10 months ago
Please help me Welcome Zuzu Bahro to friends-grid. Zuzu is from the US and has been in opensim for a nuber of years. Zuzu's fav online hobby is landscaping. Zuzu will be living on friends region.....please say hi when you see her.

PinDeluca: Hi Zuzu, Welcome Aboard ! 10 months ago

Thank You Everyone. I love sailing and used to be on Older sim.
Angela Deangelo


PinDeluca: Hello Chloe, Wonderful to have you on board. I also love to sail - Lets raise anchor together ! 10 months ago
Feeling the gentle sway of the horse beneath you as it navigates the winding path between towering trees and lush foliage. The sound of the rain tapping against the leaves overhead is soothing, and you feel invigorated by the fresh, tropical air.

As you ride deeper into the forest, you spot vibrant flowers in every color of the rainbow. Some are cascading down from tree trunks, while others are perched high above your head on vines. The air is filled with the sweet fragrance of blossoms and the buzz of hummingbirds flitting from one flower to the next.

Monkey calls echo through the trees, and you catch glimpses of chimpanzees swinging from branch to branch. You marvel at the natural beauty all around you, feeling grateful for the opportunity to experience such wonder.

As the rain begins to taper off, you come upon a clearing where a group of macaws are preening in a tree. Their magnificent colors are a feast for your eyes, and you sit quietly on your horse, just taking it all in.

As the sun begins to peak through the trees, you dismount your horse and take a moment to thank it for the amazing experience. You leave the rainforest feeling refreshed, and in awe of the stunningly beautiful place we call home.

Carmen Jewel: You describe Paradise so beautifully. :) 11 months ago

Some people call it heaven,
other people call it home

friends-grid

opening June 15


Serina Gee: Some are lucky enough to call it both!! 11 months ago
Hello all, I have decided that I am going to do a little sail every Sunday at noon. This is not a formal event.....more of a "hop in and join if you want....no bad feelings if you dont".

Every sunday....I will be working on my sailing skills........I understand if you prefer to sail faster.......but also wanted to extend the invitation.

PinDeluca: GET READY TO>>>>> RUMBLE>>>>> or drown! ... HAHAHA , whatever get ready to have some good old friends fun! 11 months ago

Safinemahoe2: Happy Mothers Day to all our Moms! 12 months ago

Hello Friends,
Some sun and beach for you all...
See you soon!


Safinemahoe2: Awesome beach…..thank you for sharing! Enjoy your trip! 12 months ago
In the U.S. this is a day to celebrate Mexican culture thru it's cuisine and music. Restaurants all over are gearing up for a day of festivities with loads of food and mariachi music. Historically, it's a day to celebrate the Mexican victory over French soldiers at the Battle of Puebla in 1862. So break out the chips and salsa everyone!

PinDeluca: Sounds Amazing ! (sorry about the French Reggie ;P) 12 months ago
Friends-grid is wanting to help our friends at I Love You grid during their technical challenges and so we will be providing Party Mountain for their regular weekly dances as well as special events, as long as needed.

**************************************
Beginning this Saturday, Nov 25

12 noon grid time

I Love You at friends-grid

With DJ Rosa and Hostess Bobbi

*************************************

Posters with tp will be put up soon, but Party Mountain is the venue on same island as stables (where the Grand Opening was).

PinDeluca: YAY.. I missed the event so much... Will do my very best to get there on Saturday ! 5 months ago