I found the root problem of the Opensim Community

It has become 100% apparent the one consistent problem of this community is criticism. Whether it be constructive, productive, observed or helpful it is automatically deemed an attack and the emotionally disturbed retaliate.

The severe lack of mental maturity is almost astounding but makes apparent as to why this website becomes a soap opera, every couple of days.

One person could post a new dress. Yes every sheeple will post ooh ahh and oh. Maybe it's an awesome dress? But if one person notices a defect, something missed or something out of place and says anything. AHHH OMMMaGAwwd!! The critiquer is immediately attacked, de-railed, accused of being uneducated and MUST have mental disabilities, a.k.a. un-hinged! The person is labeled a troll or a post hijacker, etc.

That one person would then be subjected to the rest of the sheeple, trying to one up the other for glory points, clout, community appreciation, medal of dishonor? Take your pick, it probably has been awarded and true.

In the end, what has been accomplished? The dress is put into obscurity and ignored. The creator lifted on some social chair among the crowd for being a VICTIM. Oh the horror that someone noticed an error.

Rather than thanks, let me fix it and re-post? Which would be the BEST option and solution. Very rare chance.

It is pretty pathetic and this post will be attacked because it goes against the grain of the sheeple. You must agree and obey and follow without individual thought, logic or suffer the wrath of the emotionally disturbed!

And people wonder why I rarely post so much so, that even Swiss coocoo clockmakers, accuse me of making a first post, because of the space in time in between them.

Once this community can mature, and stop with the self-righteousness and take criticism constructively, will it thrive. Only time will tell, but I doubt it. Because in the years I have been here, and this is no different than toxic secondlife, it hasn't changed for the better.

Give it a try and be better.

For the record, as an experiment, I will not partake in this discussion.

Here is a great chart to compare: Difference-Between-Constructive-and-Destructive-Criticism

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good morning people who seek knowledge.. Adani was called into work today,, and Im not sure if he will make it back in time to teach this class on Scripting, so I might change it to more texturing with Materials for Advanced Lighting Sequins and Latex
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New 2024 Schedule for Rockin the Blues
Region: Wyldwood Bayou Rockin' The Blues
Event begins: 2024-02-02 18:00 SLT
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Details:
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Rockin’ the Blues new show times for 2024

Saturday 6PM-9PM at Rockin’ the Blues
DJ Riker Blues Showcase 6-7:30PM
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Sunday 9-10:30AM
DJ Kith spins Chill Blues on the Bayou Belle

CyberScan Scanner. This device can listen for hidden 'microphones' placed on your sim to spy on you. It scans the channels you select with a frequency you input. If people are chatting in local chat and the scanner has a hit, it will let you know. :D Now available at Wizardry region. Open source as always so you can modify the code, god mode it, whatever you want to do. :) It is also a very powerful tool for scripters who are creating devices that use channel communication, as it allows you to listen in on what your LSL scripting is actually doing. :)

Liebe Musikfreunde, es ist wieder soweit!

Die Zappelbude lädt euch herzlich ein zum „Blue Monday“ am 5. Februar 2024, ab 21:00 Uhr.
Taucht ein in eine musikalische Welt, die von energiegeladenen Klängen bis hin zu sanften Tönen reicht.

Wann: 5. Februar 2024, ab 21:00 Uhr
Wo: Zappelbude – Taxi: hg.osgrid.org:80:Xenotown

Im Vorprogramm erwartet euch ab 20:00 Uhr eine einzigartige Reise durch die Klanglandschaften von „Yello – The New Mix In One Go“.
Ab 21:00 Uhr übernimmt Xenos das Steuer und entführt euch mit einer abwechslungsreichen Musikauswahl von Type O Negative über Yello bis hin zu System Of A Down.
Es wird laut, es wird leise – eine musikalische Reise durch verschiedene Genres erwartet euch.
Lasst euch von den Beats mitreißen, taucht ein in die Atmosphäre der Zappelbude und erlebt einen unvergesslichen „Blue Monday“.
Bringt Freunde mit und tanzt gemeinsam durch die Nacht!
Ich freue mich auf euer zahlreiches Erscheinen und eine unvergessliche Nacht voller Musik und guter Stimmung!

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Located on One Love Beach Club we have set aside some small rentals for you to live in for free. All you need to do is Sign up for a Trianon-World account using the viewer (https://www.trianon-world.com/index.php/trianon-world-grid...) and move in. Prim Allowance of 200 prims per land.
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Join us at the Piazza at 3 pm grid time, for a couple of hours of fun and music while Rockin' Robert spins the tunes for us via his radio station Wax Radio.
The Piazza, where good friends and great music always come together.
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Did you know Eternity Night Club Has Games at the coffee shop? Greedy Every Sunday Morning at 7am, We Have Greedy, Chess, Checkers, Parcheesj, Uno, Zyngo, Poker, we also have Free Fishing with Prizes on The Dock by The Beach and sooo much more. op://login.digiworldz.com:8002/Rock%20City/188/243/22
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Cameos have a rich history dating back to ancient times, where they were often used to depict romantic scenes or symbols of love. Add your favorite image to the cameo, and click to open. I also have heart lockets and an endless supply of heart-themed jewelry perfect for Valentine's Day. three.hills.grid.outworldz.net:8002:Monentes Jewelry

Hi Everyone!

If you love Legacy Perky then you really need to check out the new arrivals at Zoey's Boutique on the Raven's Peak Grid! Then, if you like what I'm doing, please take the Limo below and don't forget to keep coming back as new arrivals are in store regularly.

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New Local Region Teleporters, you can set them up in our web based control panel and just have them locally or share them with the grid on our destination guide/stargate system https://youtu.be/pCp4CQ1Rs2E https://www.wolf-grid.com

The human brain loves to categorize things. It’s how we make sense of our world on a daily basis. This has much to do with why we are so quick to make assumptions. Our brains need to understand why people say what they say by filling in the blanks. The breakdown happens when our assumptions are flat or wrong. It’s dangerous to believe you know everything about ANYONE here and vice versa. When you communicate with people in general, do so as clearly as possible with an open mind and open ears. Listening is one of the greatest tools to combat assumptions. Just wanted to say this! Have a Great Day!!

Safinemaohe2, the owner of Friends Grid, who should therefore be friendly and understanding to everyone and be open to all as she says, deleted a completely simple comment of mine, where I was responding to her sugary post claiming that Josh Boam dedicated himself to her and her grid, setting aside all his other commitments.

So in my comment, I simply pointed out that it would be interesting to understand the nature of the problem with her grid, because SHE pays a service directly to Josh Boam and therefore, BY PAYING, she is entitled to assistance. No one responded to the problem, not even her; instead, a series of useless aggressive comments started, and then Safine deleted my comment because it was probably uncomfortable for the usual advertising and devotion she has always shown towards Boam without any REAL reason, but only because he does his job (which, by the way, isn't even done well since he had to ask for help from Lone Wolf, the only one who truly helped in that situation without charging a dollar! and therefore deserving of thanks).

In my comment, I pointed out that Boam just did his job and that she, of whom I now doubt even pays considering the publicity she gives him for a grid that is absolutely average and also poorly functional, I would say, and not innovative at all with also high costs.

Dear Safinemaohe, by deleting my comment, you have shown your real position of absolute servility towards Boam and anything but a friendly condition of openness towards others, drop the mask because if you can't handle a realistic comment where there are no sycophants, you'd better stay silent, it would make you look better.

Furthermore, in your post, it seems that the Opensimulator community does not help each other, when instead FROM NICO TO PAGANE EVEN TO MISTRESSDELGADO THE WHOLE COMMUNITY HAS ALWAYS HELPED EACH OTHER BETWEEN GRIDS TO TRY TO SOLVE ANOTHER'S PROBLEM, SO YOUR POST, BESIDES BEING USELESS AS AN ACT OF BOOTLICKING AND ALSO SILLY BECAUSE YOU PAY FOR SUCH A SERVICE, IS ALSO OFFENSIVE TOWARDS THOSE WHO STRIVE TO HELP OTHERS.

Have a good day! (you can now unleash in the comments!)

AWAKENING Now Open
Confronting and shocking but the truth needs to be shown. Use Media if you wish to listen to any of the videos - there are a few videos for viewing.
You can click on objects for notecards with links

A gift is located [use the teleport] along with a box of all the links to do your own due diligence.

If you have lost a loved one recently or you are injured due to mandates, AWAKENING will no doubt trigger you - that is understandable. There are a few displays that may be too difficult for people to see, especially if a loved one has been lost.

There are gardens to relax in, to pray, to take time out and just be.

Please know there is a global community out there waiting for you - reach out and open up and please know you are not alone.

United as One Humanity ♥

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Elf Mage DJ Maldrul performs at On The Rocks @ Alternate Metaverse Thursdays from 4:00 PM to 6:00 PM Pacific time
DJ Maldrul will be playing a mix of classic and contemporary Rock & Roll and his signature selection of SOMETHING COMPLETELY DIFFERENT!

Come check out Rocky Shores where you can dance, surf, play Greedy, hang out and explore!

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Cyberpunk Dystopian City's with huge free area also at Lucidus
dont forget hg.neverworldgrid.com:8002:AllFreeShoppingSpree for great Free items some scifi items also. Or just come hop around Neverworlds map lots to see and find , We love to share, Keep Open Sim Free and Sharing !!!

Love is in the air, that or someone is baking snickerdoodles!! I've made some nice soft pillows for your Valentine's Day Decorating or for just general decorating. They come in 8 different colors surrounded by white ruffles and they are free, full perm, and waiting for you in "Lavia's Little Corner" of the Star Jinn Palisade Mall in the Masala Al Kohav region of our grid. You may copy 1, 2, 3, or all. They are not scripted but you can script them if you like. Enjoy and have an awesome day! Blessings and much love, Lavia.